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Hi Reader, I genuinely believe that we’re each the curators of our own experience, even though I forget it all the time. I don’t mean curator as in “only look at my apparent fabulousness on social media” sort of way. I mean the deeper way I get to choose where I put my energy, my attention, my focus, my love… I can decide what story I tell myself, who I hang out with, what I eat. Every little decision shapes my life, and curates my reality, if you will. Reality is layered. There are thousands...
Hi Reader, There was a night, many years ago, when I was sitting on my kitchen floor, wailing, as one does when one’s life has just imploded. My boyfriend had dumped me, my physical health was absolute crap, and I had no clue what I wanted anymore. I had two choices:Keep numbing, blaming, spiraling.Or remember what my grandmother taught me: magic is what you reach for when nothing else works. And here’s what happened: I didn’t get an overnight miracle. But slowly, I learned how to stay calm...
Hi Reader, Last week, I explained why working magic on other people, even the most idiotic of authoritarians, is not the best use of my magic. That’s because the deepest, most effective magic isn’t about bending the will of other people. It’s about transforming your own. That’s where liberation begins. I’ve seen it again and again: the people who change their lives, their relationships, even the course of their communities, are the ones who learn to work magic on themselves first. Because:...